An Invitation

Disclaimer: While most of the traits listed under each sign may be
shown by all women in general, I chose those traits that are dominent
for each sign. These are based on my previous readings, experiences,
and people that i met and interacted with so far. While my writings may
have been influenced by the late great astrologer, Linda Goodman, most
ideas and examples cited are mine.

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Aries Girl (March 21 - April 20) - The Dominatrix

This
girl will always want you to ask her opinion before making decisions.
She’s women’s liberation in the flesh. The fastest way to get her to be
interested with you is if you express interest in her. In starting a
conversation, you must always start by giving a very brief introduction
of yourself and then proceed asking her about what she does or what she
likes to do. She prefers to talk about herself, but she expects you to
listen. She may get impatient when you can’t make a decision where you
want to go during a date. Secretly, she might like making the decision,
but she will resent you that you didn’t make it sooner and wasted (her)
time.

Polgara’s Quick Tip: Huwag mag-aalala kung
mukhang siya lang ang nagku-kuwento, mas ok sa kanya un, yun lang,
don’t dare space out while she’s talking or she will get very, very
offended.

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Taurus Girl (April 21 - May 21) The Homie girl

This
girl starts smiling genuinely when you start talking about your family
and bring up sentimental stories of your childhood. She loves looking
at family pictures and will be very flattered when you invite her to
dinner with your family. This girl will eat with gusto with you. She
will not pretend to be demure or delicate in front of good food. She
will not get angry easily and loves a practical joke. In her mind, she
fits in easily with your family or anywhere you might take her, for
that matter. She likes being introduced to your friends and being
treated as a part of the barkada immediately. She’s grounded enough to
know her limitations and tends to stay within her circle of comfort.
When you take her somewhere out of her comfort zone, she becomes
conscious, defensive and uncomfortable with herself… as she usually
does when faced with situations or environments where in she does not
“belong”.

Polgara’s QuickTip: It will be nice for you to
bring this girl to smorgasbords and eat-all-you-can restaurants. You
will get your money’s worth as well as pogi points on taste. Just be
sure that it’s a nice relaxing place na comfortable yung chairs. Itong
girl na ito mas gusto ung kabagay nya na lalake. She feels very hurt
when she’s “OP” in a group.

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Gemini Girl (May 22 - June 21) The Changing Winds

She
adapts to changes faster than most people. She embraces change and
hates permanence. Example, she is no longer a student, she graduated
and found a new job. She happened to find a work where the culture is
different from that she’s used to. You should expect that she will show
those changes to you and therefore, cause concern on your part. Don’t
worry, she is still the girl you fell in love with and who loves you.
Just try your best to adjust to the “new her”, everytime she chooses to
change. If you refuse to change with her, and you stubbornly cling to
your old beliefs and environment, she will just keep on changing and
changing up to a point that she will no longer see you as a part of her
life. No amount of nagging and resentment on your part will change her
back, if she’s set on self-improvement and development.

Polgara’s Quick Tip:
You know the expression “nagbago yata ang ihip ng hangin”? Madalas
mangyayari ito pag Gemini ang GF mo. Huwag magpataasan ng pride with
this girl, impossibleng manalo.

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Cancer Girl (June 22 - July 22) The Sentimental Sister

This
girl will keep your letters close to her bedside so she may read them
over and over. She laughs easily and infectiously, so your corny jokes
will be gratified with sincere laughter, even if she is in fact
laughing at you. She might be vague about certain things and often
forget several minor details. However, she will not forget your
anniversary/monthsary so you shouldn’t, too. Flowers mean more to this
girl than those under other birth signs. Beware of moods that swing
from looney to sulking in the extreme. She’s touchy-feely and won’t
mind a lot of PDA. Crowds are ok, but what she really wants is to
snuggle with you someplace quiet and whisper sweet nothings to each
other. She might balk a little when you give even a slight indication
that you’re broke during your date and that you really cannot afford a
sunset-view dinner at a plush hotel’s rooftop for now. When talks of
money come in, she’s still cool and sweet, but you can almost hear the
"cha-ching" of cash registers inside her brain.

Polgara’s Quick Tip:
This is the only sign that is widely accepted and proven to be affected
by the changes of the moon. So pag bilog ang buwan, tantyahin mo na
yung mood niya. Pag masayahin at baliw-in sya nung araw na yun… alam
na. Pag inis-in at bad trip sya, sorry na lang.

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Leo Girl (July 23 -August 21) Her Royalty, The Queen

This
girl is a lioness, for sure. She expects to be treated royally. From
the best hair-do’s to the best phone accessories, she just won’t settle
for anything less. Like the male counterpart, this girl is absolutely
100% high-maintenance. But in exchange for all the lavish gifts she
expects, she will be the Queen you will want all your friends to meet.
She is deliciously submissive as long as all her criteria are met. In
any group situation, she will be the one holding her head high, and
even if she’s wearing something very simple like a pair of jeans and a
t-shirt, she’s a stand out because of her queenly bearing (and her
branded bag). She doesnt mind if the place you’re taking her is not
romantic in the least (e.g. ATC or Rustans) as long as it doesnt mean
mingling with those she thinks are less than her. She may go slumming
sometimes when times are hard, but she will burn your camera if you so
much as take a picture of her eating "fishballs na nga lang muna" for
lunch just because she’s short on budget at the moment. She does not
like strangers who approach her out of the blue and start getting
familiar (i.e. feeling close) with her. No one cuts a fresh remark with
bristling sarcasm like this girl.

Polgara’s Quick Tip:
Expect this girl to be very brand conscious. Make sure din na kasama
sya sa mga parties mo, kahit simpleng inuman lang sa bahay, because she
can host it like she would a 200-people soiree, with grace and
elegance. Yung mga bisita mo feeling nila nasa exclusive party sila sa
galing nyang mag-asikaso ng bisita. Pero pag presko ang dating mo,
tingin pa lang nya para ka nang tinampal.

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Virgo Girl (August 22 - September 23) Miss Manners

This
girl seems shy and overly conscious of her appearance. She’s timid at
first then gently opens up to close friends. She hates latecomers and
is punctual to a fault. She doesn’t like to impose on people, and will
always ask very politely if she needs something. Her major turn-ons are
intelligent conversation and street-smartness in a guy. She abhors guys
who seem to spend too much on useless things. She will be happier to
receive gifts that she can use than those that look nice but
impractical. She feels uneasy around boisterous and tactless people,
because they are her exact opposites. She feels flustered when caught
doing improper things or thinking malicious thoughts, And, she will
deftly change the subject when the topics seem inappropriate for decent
people. She also feels the compulsion to prepare the exact amount when
paying fare in the jeepney or anywhere, just because she doesnt want to
inconvenience herself or the other party. She’s casual and practical to
a fault.

Polgara’s Quick Tip: Even if this girl is not a
“virgin” literally, she will still blush with embarassment when people
talk about intimate things in her presence… even green jokes. So
careful lang when taking her out, even if she goes “all the way" with
you in your date, don’t make the mistake of implying that she’s
easy-to-get kahit pabiro. Masasaktan sya at ibe-break ka niya kasi sa
isip nya, you’re treating her like a S-L-U-T.

Libra Girl (September 24 - October 23) The Witty Witch

She
can dish out remarks that everyone eats up. Her comments are valued as
they provide several sides to an issue. Her conversation is as
priceless as her smile. She can definitely get any conversation going
with a guy, and her intelligence makes even the most chauvinistic of
the males feel spellbound. This girl is incredibly supportive of her
boyfriend, and will point out mistakes and loopholes gently… in a way
that the guy will think “why didn’t I think of that?” and not get
offended. Punctuality is not her strongest point, but her smile and
very reasonable excuse will make your impatience dissipate into thin
air… those, and her impeccable choice of date-clothes and accessories
that you notice at once when she arrives.

Polgara’s Quick Tip:
This girl likes to take a nap. Most Librans need naps as other people
may need merienda in the afternoon. So if she says, “idlip ako ha”, she
probably means it. The worst thing you can do is deprive her of this
nap by being pilyo. That’s the fastest way to get her cranky.

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Scorpio Girl (October 24 - November 22) The Seeress

There’s
no use lying to this girl, as she is like a walking lie-detector test
to any guy she’s in love with. You may think she’s overly paranoid or
jealous, but truth is, she loves you so much that being disloyal to her
(even in small things) cause her physical pain. She is the girl who
will leave everything behind to be with you, even if it means hardships
and suffering on her part. The hardest thing for her to do is leave
you, and everything else is secondary and relatively easy for her to
do. This much intensity in love and fidelity may scare some guys away,
but that guy who is secure enough to let her love him the only way she
knows how will reap the fruits of everlasting loyalty. And yes, only
girls under this sign have the ability to kill for the one they love.

Polgara’s Quick Tip:
She notices EVERYTHING. Yung mga times na parang dedma sya pag
nagkakamali ka, hindi ka talaga completely nakalusot nun, pinagbigyan
ka lang nya. Pag inulit mo pa (dahil akala mo nakalusot ka), prepare
for a war that you have no hopes of winning.

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Sagittarius Girl (November 23 - December 22) The Optimistic Prankster

This
girl will generally always look at the bright side of things. She will
believe in you and you will be her champion. She’s also the girl to
bring when you’re going to rowdy parties because she fits right in.
She’s a jokester who will not humiliate you in front of your friends by
being offended by pranks. She’s sunshine personified when you’re
together, never a dull moment. She may sometimes choose her career over
you, but she’s always sure that you will understand. Her exuberance is
never-ending and her excitement infectious. The only way to wipe that
excited smile off her face is when you point out her flaws… those that
she conveniently ignores. Even so, her smile comes back brightly and
optimistically thinks that you’re just joking.

Polgara’s Quick Tip:
Hindi sya KJ. In the spirit of fun she will go along with jokes and
will laugh harder than everyone else. Pero pikon sya pag seryosong
usapan, tapos brining-up mo ung mga faults or pagkukulang nya. Isa-isa
nyang ide-deny yung mga yun… worse, magagalit sya sa yo at pwede ka
pang kasuhan ng libel.

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Capricorn Girl (December 23 - January 20) Miss No-Nonsense

This
girl probably has the highest standards among all the Signs. She might
not tell you directly, but she secretly takes note of things that you
tell her on where you studied, what your parents do for a living, what
you do for a living, and what your plans are for the future. While
she’s cordial to everyone, she will veer away from slackers, and those
who she (according to her standards) sees as losers. As a girlfriend,
she seems strict and uncompromising. But considering her meticulous
insistence that you eat on time, always take your vitamins and fussing
about your over-all hygiene and appearance…. you just know that she
loves you, even if she shows it more through actions than words. She’s
also very protective and proud of her family. If her BF makes her
choose between him or her family, chances are, any hopes of a lasting
relationship is gone. She will stick by her family through thick or
thin. Having this girl for a GF or wife will mean loving and living
with in-laws for the rest of your life, even if they’re as bearable as
the fires of hell.

Polgara’s Quick Tip: She is mom.
Maasikaso, ma-kalinga, maalaga…. pero napaka-strikto. Like you would do
to your mom, remind her every once in a while to relax and take a
break. Give her a back massage to relieve her tension. Also, when you
meet her family for the first time, make sure you say something nice
about her dad or her brother (kahit na nangingilabot ka sa angas ng bro
nya or sa pagka-mataasin ng dad nya).

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Aquarius Girl (January 21 - February 19) Best Friend

At
first you can’t believe how this bright-eyed, smart girl noticed you.
Simple. She’s very curious about you. In her mind, she wants to know
all about you, how you think, how you function, what makes you laugh…
the list goes on. She is unbelievably tolerant to your faults and
doesn’t expect you to go out of your way to impress her. She loves you
for YOU. Finally!!! Here’s a girl who understands you, and who acts
like a true friend. But wait…. while she gives you freedom to do your
thing, she gives a brief nod and a vague comment whenever you try to
restrict her in any way. The thing is, she keeps you on a long leash,
and she expects you to afford her the same treatment. If there’s one
thing that she loves more than you, it’s her freedom to think and do as
she likes. Don’t worry, you’re free to do and think as you like, too.
She is your friend, and she will always understand. That’s why it’s
very hard to leave her or the relationship with her… because you’re not
completely sure that you two are IN a relationship. Is it really just
friendship?

Polgara’s Quick Tip: Hindi sya selosa sa mga
friends mo na babae, so nagtataka sya kung bakit ikaw selos nang selos
sa mga guy friends nya. If you ask her if she really loves you, she
might reply by reading to you a part of the Beatitudes… “Love is
patient. Love is kind. Love is never jealous nor resentful…”

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Pisces Girl (February 20- March 20) Your GradeSchool Valentine

This
is the most feminine of the signs. The term girly-girl applies to
Pisces girls anywhere. However, the Pisces girl you meet now may not be
the same one you get to know after a few months of friendship. Why?
This is because a Pisces girl will always put up a defense-wall first
before she shows you her true colors… only when she’s convinced that
she can trust you with her true personality. She will deliberately
mislead you into thinking that she’s tough and nasty, when the truth is
she’s very emotional and sympathetic. She has a tendency to put a guy
in a pedestal and call him her hero. She’s your personal fan club who
will prod you gently, never demanding much, until you reach your true
potential. She will always see beauty, potential and goodness, even in
those that people regard as hopeless cases. In fact, the girl who fell
in love with the barkada’s “outcast” or “loser” may be a Pisces girl.
She will nurture the guy’s bruised ego until he gains confidence enough
to strike back at his attackers… then, she will stand by the sidelines
and cheer him all the way.

Polgara’s Quick Tip: Hindi ka
matitiis ng girl na ito lalo na pag nagpa-awa ka ng todo.. Eto ang mga
girls na nadadaan sa iyak at maka-awa. She will almost always support
the underdog. Downside, if she feels that you don’t need her anymore
and your ego has bloated enough that you forget to even glance at her…
her walls come back up, more solid than before. So that you get
confused as to where that sensitive, sympathetic girl went… and who is
this B!tch who took her place?

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